Never worry about anything because its all about the experience .. Think about it idk about you but most of us should beat ourself up about time wasted in situations that we feel didn’t go our way.
Why the fuck did I stay at a job for this long when I wasn’t happy at all ..or why did I just stay in a on and off relationship for 8 years and didn’t get to fuck all the bitches or experience other people lol ..
But when you look at it like everything is an experience you will realize that time is just an illusion and you didn’t really waste it. For me I learned from everything to better myself for the next situation, im not right about everything but I know for sure when you feel like its actually time to go, and you feel like you gave it your all….leave .. fuck putting yourself second when that feeling of “I have closure” comes respect it. But you don’t forget the situation, we all suffer from not having the job, partner, money, and lifestyle we want at some point.
We get depressed we feel like giving up but for me the journey is the best part.I try to tell people once you get to where you wanna be fun might not be fun.Its like you beat the game at that point so pace yourself, make mistakes, break hearts, just don’t kill nobody lol ..
My mom called me in tears this past weekend, over marriage issues, and she regrets not ever being happy, not ever being done for, yea it hurt, and yea most women are in her shoes, all I could say is learn and be patient don’t rush. Spend time with yourself. Marriage is a serious issue, but you cant place yourself in a jain cell and not be happy, its just not fair.
Yea its my mom, my bestfriend, my homie but like everyone she has to learn from the time she feels wasted, and thats something she hasn’t took the time to do, because the issues tend to be repeated. I conclude to say “first love yourself” then love time in the physical and experience life’s ups and downs, they are beautiful and don’t worry about anything.